Tuesday, 19 June 2018

Do I Need A Five Year Plan?

Do I Need A Five Year Plan?
There's no denying the fact that there are trends online. Whether it's a trip to Positano or orange and teal edits guilty, there comes a time when a topic is all the all the rage. Lately, certainly on my online feeds, that topic of conversation is having  a five year plan. 

What is a five year plan said no one ever? Its pretty self explanatory - As the term suggests it consists of rounding up where you hope to be in five years time in terms of career, relationships, financially and other miscellaneous categories. This week, as I've been eagerly skimming through these posts online, I've began to wonder if I need a five year plan?

Truthfully, I'm not really a long term plan kind of gal. I struggle sticking with new years resolutions, haven't yet put my finger on where I want to take my career and the thought of waiting for years to achieve something really isn't for me. I'm impatient, don't judge.

At first after reading a couple of posts, I was quite envious that these girlbosses knew where they wanted to take their lives but gradually, I began to dwell on the fact that I didn't have one of these carefully thought out plans and that my path was very much unknown. I couldn't help but think, whilst there's absolutely nothing wrong with setting yourself goals, should we feel this pressure to try and map our lives out? I don't want to worry at my desk because I don't know what direction I want to take my career in or feel guilty for spending twenty quid on ASOS that could have gone into my savings.

Occasionally, the conversation comes up in real life and again, I find myself questioning 'Do I need a five year plan in order to feel like my life is together?' The answer of course is 'Absolutely not' but do I feel like I'm shunned when people ask me 'Where do you see yourself in five years time?' and I shrug then say 'Ooh I'm not really sure', absolutely yes.

There are of course, many sides to the debate. Some people don't believe in five year plans as we should 'always be striving for success'. V true. Others believe having set goals in mind provide motivation. Also true. No matter which I look at it, I can see the pros and cons to both and I think we all should be able to do so, no matter which side of the fence we sit on. 

So, in short, I personally don't think I need a five year plan to motivate me for the next couple of years. If you do, brilliant, I'd love to know what direction you're heading in but please, don't turn your nose up at those who are happy with not knowing. 

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